Sports drink memes
aside, we’re in the midst of Mercury retrograde, and I think it’s important to
talk a bit about what that means! At the very least I want to take the
opportunity to address some of the typical questions people have about this
astro phenomena. As a child born right before a Mercury retrograde, I
definitely come from the perspective that life mostly continues on as usual for
folx. There’s no need to panic or get worried about this, and knowledge gives
you tools to prepare!
What even is a Mercury Retrograde
When astrologers say that “Mercury is retrograde”, that usually means that if you were to chart the course of Mercury across the skies every night, you’d notice it appearing to move “backwards”, in the opposite direction of the other planets. I’m sure that any humans who’ve spent time studying the stars might have freaked out about this at first, but if you study them long enough you learn that this is normal. In fact, Mercury has a retrograde phase 3 times each year, because of how close it is to the sun!
Mercury represents communication, information, small
details, and travel. So if you think about Mercury slowing down, retracing its
steps “backwards”, then going forward and resuming its path across the sky, we
can apply this metaphorically to the topics Mercury represents. Communication
can get swirly, you might need to go back and forth a lot over small details,
or your travel plans may get disrupted or delayed. Technology also seems to be
disrupted during this time, and in general any little delays can stack up to
create a lot of frustration.
Repeating this cycle every four months or so means that Mercury retrograde tends to occur once every four signs of the Zodiac– this year it starts off in Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio. If you’re familiar with the nature of these three signs, you might recall that they’re all Water signs! What a cool pattern, right? The Water signs are associated with our emotional life or with literal water. When you layer some of these meanings onto the frustrations, delays, etc. I discussed, you can see how this can make for a very emotionally turbulent time.
I’ve got stuff to do– how long will this last?
The first Mercury retrograde of 2020 follows this cycle:
February 2, 2020 – Mercury first covers the part of Pisces that it will later retrace. Things that happen during this period of time will likely need to be revisited, repeated, or redone. Yay.
February 16, 2020 – Mercury slows down, and on this day it appears to stand still in the sky. After this, it retraces it’s steps back through Pisces, and is said to be properly “retrograde” (not “in retrograde” or submersed in any sports drink liquids, just dipped back into the Piscean waters).
February 25, 2020 – Mercury gets swallowed by the Sun. Not really– but astrologers say it is in the “heart of the sun”, or “cazimi”. This means it’s at the same degree of the Zodiac as the sun! This is a turning point, and many issues will see major shifting in a direction toward resolution.
March 9, 2020 – Mercury slows down and appears to stand still again, this time turning back to its normal “direct” motion. This means it travels that same stretch of the Zodiac it covered twice already, one last time before moving on. Third time’s a charm… literally! Things get resolved, for better or for worse.
March 29, 2020 – Mercury finally leaves the area of the
Zodiac it’s been crossing over and over again, and will move on to new topics,
retrograde-free. Until Summer. Yay.
So, as you can see, the entire process lasts two months! And
this repeats twice more in 2020! Rather than spending half the year panicking,
let’s talk about what to actually expect from a Mercury retrograde period.
What should I actually expect from Mercury Retrograde?
I asked for questions to write about, and y’all came up with
some great ones! Let’s see what we can learn about together.
How do I avoid putting my life on hold?
One piece of traditional advice from astrologers is not to start things during a Mercury retrograde period. While I’d agree that if you have a choice not to do something during this time, you shouldn’t, that’s not realistic for every choice. Also, on the spectrum of “oh god, oh god, what have I done” to “best life choice ever”, any actions taken during a Mercury retrograde are smack dab near the middle, along with all the other average actions you take over the course of your life. Mercury is the smallest planet, with the shortest orbit and some seriously short-lived impacts, on the whole. So the vast majority of us aren’t going to screw everything up based on one Mercury Retrograde.
What I have noticed about starting things during Mercury retrograde is that you tend to experience the following:
Delays! Everything seems to take longer, so the time between
making a choice to do something and actually getting to do it is longer.
Clerical Errors! It’s not that you shouldn’t sign contracts
or start a job during this time, but triple check your paperwork– even the
smallest details might be comically wrong.
Repetition! If you’re interviewing for a job and you are
asked to come back in or re-do an interview, this can actually be a good thing
during a Mercury Retrograde. It could mean they’re taking their time or that
the process has changed and they want to take a closer look at you as a
Surviving a Mercury Retrograde period really just requires patience and a change in expectations. Listen to the signs that tell you to slow down, if only so you avoid making a mistake or missing something important.
Am I dealing with a Twin Flame?
If you’re not familiar with the concept of a Twin Flame, the
“tl;dr” version is that it’s like a soulmate but kind of toxic. Like– y’all are
constantly playing the game of “they love me, they love me not”. This kind of
question can come up a lot around Mercury Retrograde because another
traditional piece of advice is that you can see your exes coming back into the
picture. Receiving messages or phone calls from people you never thought (or
maybe even wanted) to see again seems to be more likely!
If you’re having trouble deciding whether the relationship
you have with someone is healthy or has healthy boundaries, this is a decision
I’d definitely wait to act on until after the Retrograde period has passed. Use
this time to gather more information, or take the time to talk about boundaries
or expectations. Or scroll through their Instagram feed to remember all the
things you love and the things you love to hate about them (just be careful not
to accidentally “like” their super-old photos– what a classic Mercury
Retrograde thing to do).
Since this retrograde happens mostly in Pisces, if you have
any of the following in your chart you might be more prone to issues in this
area during THIS particular Mercury Retrograde:
Virgo Rising – Pisces is your 7th house of Relationships…
so Mercury is asking you to revisit issues from your relationships. Or, rather,
Mercury is giving you the opportunity to do so, if you choose.
Mercury in your 7th House – If you normally have
Mercury in your 7th house in your birth chart, Mercury automatically
becomes more important in your closest relationships.
Pisces or Sagittarius Rising – Based on your chart, Mercury
is responsible for your 7th house affairs, so it tends to the needs
of your relationships. With Mercury distracted by its retrograde period, you
might feel the impact on your relationships around this time.
At the end of the day, remember that you have the right to
set boundaries in any relationship! If you’re looking for a cool, queer/inclusive
resource on setting boundaries or making decisions about whether you should be
with someone or not, this could help: The
Relationship Bill of Rights, from More Than Two.
How does this impact my health?
It’s not just exes that tend to come back during Mercury Retrograde
periods… our chronic health issues can come back to haunt us, as well. At least
these episodes tend to be shorter and less acute than usual, for most! Mercury
isn’t typically associated with health, but there might be a few different chart
placements that could get activated by this Retrograde:
Libra Rising – Pisces is your 6th house of health
issues, so Mercury is asking you to review diagnoses, new or old information
about your health, or communicate with others around your health.
Mercury in your 6th House – If Mercury is in your
6th house in your birth chart, then Mercury will be related to your
health more closely.
Aries or Capricorn Rising – Mercury is responsible for your
6th house affairs, so just like with relationships, a distracted
Mercury will take away some of your normal resources you use to manage your
Moon in Pisces – If you have the Moon in Pisces in your
chart, you also have a health connection there, so you could be prone to issues
coming up during this Mercury Retrograde.
It’s important to note that NONE of this is professional medical advice. I am not a doctor. So, yeah, make sure you actually consult people other than me, especially if you’re having intense pain or suspect there’s a deeper issue. Like, seriously, take care of yourself!
How can I learn more?
If you’re not sure what your Rising sign is, or where your
Mercury or Moon are, or if you have literally any other question, let me know!
I love working with people on their charts, especially Mercury (I have a strong
mercury in my own chart!) Every chart is unique, and everyone lives out their
charts in different ways, so the best way to find out what Mercury Retrograde
has in store for you is to learn about your chart.
I post sometimes on Instagram (@divineorbitastrology) and twitter (@BernalOrbit), and you can DM me there. I also offer readings on this website where we can work together to make sense of your chart!